{"id":8082,"date":"2022-07-26T03:38:09","date_gmt":"2022-07-26T03:38:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/?p=8082"},"modified":"2022-08-09T03:45:18","modified_gmt":"2022-08-09T03:45:18","slug":"what-goes-through-a-mothers-mind-bishwajeet-narayan-deb","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/what-goes-through-a-mothers-mind-bishwajeet-narayan-deb\/","title":{"rendered":"What goes through a Mother&#8217;s mind? &#8211; Bishwajeet Narayan Deb"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"8082\" class=\"elementor elementor-8082\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-69a86272 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no\" data-id=\"69a86272\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1661283\" data-id=\"1661283\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-710ed39c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"710ed39c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.14.0 - 26-06-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<h6><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/h6>\n<p><b>This question holds very critical importance at least in the Indian context. If we go back 2\u20133 decades the question had a far more significant role to play in the minds of every Indian mother.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The following quote possibly defines the sentiment in the most beautiful way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h6><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0543c4c elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"0543c4c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.14.0 - 26-06-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"428\" height=\"507\" src=\"https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/11.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-8123\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/11.jpg 428w, https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/11-253x300.jpg 253w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 428px) 100vw, 428px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8c0a0b3 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no\" data-id=\"8c0a0b3\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1ae310f\" data-id=\"1ae310f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dac0dc9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"dac0dc9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h6><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/h6>\n<h6><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-eb3616b6-7fff-0cba-29eb-00b852791435\"><span style=\"font-size: 11.5pt; font-family: 'Quattrocento Sans', sans-serif; color: #282829; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: pre-wrap;\">I am being more India-specific since even today children staying with their parents after marriage is a common practice here. Though in metro cities it is becoming a declining trend over the last 10\u201315 years. But in the village and small town, it is still very common or the tradition could be because of affection, compulsion or as its the way of life.<\/span><\/span><\/h6>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h6><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8468031 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no\" data-id=\"8468031\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2daf553\" data-id=\"2daf553\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3f9d88d elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"3f9d88d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"663\" height=\"373\" src=\"https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/12.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-8127\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/12.jpg 663w, https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/12-533x300.jpg 533w, https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/12-600x338.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 663px) 100vw, 663px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8b3d2a5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no\" data-id=\"8b3d2a5\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-436e04e\" data-id=\"436e04e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-45ee9fa elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"45ee9fa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The psychological aspects are distinctly different in both the case where children stay with parents and where children stay separately for whatsoever reason. Indian social and family culture is changing and evolving very fast because of economic development and modernization. I know about a top industrial family, where the husbands and the wives are having separate residential bungalows. No, they are not separate, and neither their marriage is 2nd or 3rd. They are married to the same husband or wife for say last 40\u201350 years. Well, they are the elitist club, and their lifestyle could be different. Possibly we commoners wouldn\u2019t understand. But what I was talking that social values and psychology are changing. What would have been a stigma or unthinkable 30\u201340 years back, is no big deal today. The picture varies from small towns to metro cities where living together has become the in-thing today. There are growing incidents of same-sex living together in cities like Mumbai, which has become a kind of fashion. Well, these are still treated as exceptions. But these trends have a great role to play in the parent\u2019s minds and their psychology.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Parents, particularly the mothers are more tenable to accept and recognize the role of their daughters-in-law.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-17d1c77 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no\" data-id=\"17d1c77\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b28d1dc\" data-id=\"b28d1dc\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e7ceb88 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"e7ceb88\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"664\" height=\"443\" src=\"https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/13.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-8131\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/13.jpg 664w, https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/13-450x300.jpg 450w, https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/13-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 664px) 100vw, 664px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-c235cd6 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no\" data-id=\"c235cd6\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4ccd8ee\" data-id=\"4ccd8ee\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4991f38 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4991f38\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The question has far more intensity on whether the children stay together with their parents after marriage or are expected to stay together. Again the intensity varies from parent to parent. Mothers-in-law who stayed separately from their mothers-in-law for professional reasons or others, particularly if the couples have a strong personal bond in between and a loving relationship would be more comfortable having a far better and warm relationship with their daughters-in-law, provided the daughters-in-law are also inclined to build up cohesive relation.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d98a55b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no\" data-id=\"d98a55b\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d2effa8\" data-id=\"d2effa8\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d5b5b79 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d5b5b79\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For a mother, a lot of things go into her mind when she gets her son married and brings her daughter-in-law. It&#8217;s a happy moment as well could be a moment of loss. The mother-child relation is the closest relation, bringing and accepting a third person in between, handing over an integral part of her life is never an easy task.\u00a0<\/span><b>The realization that the relationship is not going to be the same again and the tug of war is the essence of transformation from mother to mother-in-law.\u00a0<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As such most parents, today have only one or two children, so it&#8217;s possible that mothers would be more sentimentally attached to their only child, so to that extent, it could be more difficult a proposition. The tide of emotion that goes inside could be little understood from outside, neither it could be explained.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-20669a7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no\" data-id=\"20669a7\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ee1c663\" data-id=\"ee1c663\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a493b42 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"a493b42\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"685\" height=\"408\" src=\"https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/123.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-8132\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/123.jpg 685w, https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/123-504x300.jpg 504w, https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/123-600x357.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 685px) 100vw, 685px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-9c1b710 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no\" data-id=\"9c1b710\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ea35068\" data-id=\"ea35068\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d4e7c61 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d4e7c61\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For the daughter-in-law also the task is not an easier one, settling down in a new and often unknown family. She needs support from her mother-in-law, who is herself going through the transformation process. This delicate state of mind on both sides is also the formative stage of a new relationship, which often goes the wrong way because of failure to tide over the tide of emotion and at times causes irreparable damage to the foundation. And we quite often keep on seeing the battle Panipath I, II, III, and so on.\u00a0<\/span><b>But the best part is that many times these little tug of wars are the sweetest part of their relationship,<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0without which life would be quite dull. Well, there is a darker side to this too.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-fe50926 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no\" data-id=\"fe50926\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-96c186c\" data-id=\"96c186c\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f72d6b elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"6f72d6b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"510\" height=\"327\" src=\"https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/1111.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-8139\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/1111.jpg 510w, https:\/\/beejahouse.com\/BEEJA\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/1111-468x300.jpg 468w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 510px) 100vw, 510px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-226cc31 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no\" data-id=\"226cc31\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0f14fdf\" data-id=\"0f14fdf\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3e3a35e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3e3a35e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For families where children are already staying separately or expected to stay separately after marriage because of professional compulsion, the challenge is comparatively smaller. Moms are as such get habituated by physical distance from their sons, so the psychological impact of fear of being separated from their sons after marriage doesn\u2019t weigh that much.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nowadays the mothers-in-law have to face one more new challenge quite often. Most marriages happen over short distances or in the same city and even if the distance is large, it doesn\u2019t make much of a hassle with an advanced mode of communication. The daughter-in-law can go to her parents&#8217; place \u201cmake\u201d quite often as she wishes or on the smallest pretext, so the need to build up a strong &amp; close relationship with her mother-in-law is not felt many times. Plus, the leftover gap is filled by mobile communication. On top of it the sons also start visiting his in law\u2019s place quite often.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Plus, the mothers keep visiting their daughters quite often. So the mother-in-law has to play a reclusive part unless they have a daughter as well to play the same role.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is evolving very fast, where the most modern daughters-in-law are working women or pursuing their goals. They are educated, married at a mature age, having a distinctive identity and independent thought processes.\u00a0<\/span><b>So the approach of both has to be that of love, affection, caring, and mutual respect.<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-dac75dd elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no\" data-id=\"dac75dd\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-78c80b9\" data-id=\"78c80b9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-99c89cd elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"99c89cd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.14.0 - 26-06-2023 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">But then I have seen some of the finest relations as depicted above.\n<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This question holds very critical importance at least in the Indian context. 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